The Relationship
Training Manual

David Unger, Ph.D.

Consumer Information

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While I am a licensed professional in California, I am not working here under the auspices of my license. I am only licensed as a therapist in California and any breach of that would unethical and illegal. So please note, while I will endeavor to be of assistance, this is an information sharing site created for entertainment and guidance. Please do not use this service as a substitute for professional help.

  1. The site is structured to inform, entertain and hopefully help you. It is a public arena. What you write in the general e-mail letter section and blog will be available for all. To ensure your privacy make sure you create a screen name. It is the policy of this site to respect your privacy. We will not disclose any information about you or your account, unless there is a good faith belief that such action is necessary to a) comply with legal process or other legal requirements of any government authority; b) protect of defend the rights or property of the RelationshipTraingingManual.com; c) enforce this Agreement; d) protect the interests of users of this Service other than you or any other person.

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  7. Most U.S. courts have the power to subpoena our records if they determine they are relevant to a case. If you have any questions, speak to your attorney prior to disclosing private information online. Emails may be admissible in divorce and other proceedings. You are solely responsible for any and all acts and omissions that occur under your account or screen name.

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  13. We request that when you write to us you attach a picture. Please note that we reserve the right to use your picture and may substitute a stock picture. Not all pictures used are the actual photo of the person writing the letter or blog. We endeavor to use as many real pictures as we can, but you are not required to send a picture with you submission.

  14. To keep your online experience safe and protect your own confidentiality. We suggest the following: Make sure if someone else has access to your computer that they are not able to read e-mail or files stored on your disk. Make sure that if you print online letters, you lock them up in a secure place. Be aware that if you use a workplace computer; your employer has a legal right to read your e-mail on that machine, and often keeps back-up files of all email. Be aware that if you accidentally mis-address an email to us, by clicking on the wrong name in your address book for instance, someone else will receive it.

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